1. Celebration by Kool and the Gang –

   Unfortunately, this is one of those songs that people seem to be unable to keep from playing at happy events. While there’s nothing wrong with this song, some people wouldn’t mind swapping it out for an updated song.

2. At Last by Etta James –

   It’s a truly beautiful song, but you could probably find three generations of people within your own family who have had this song played at their wedding. Update it with another beautiful, soulful ballad.

3. I Will Always Love You by Whitney Houston –

   It’s a sweet and lovely song, but if you’re the kind of couple who wants to take the road less traveled, you may want to leave this one off the play list.

4. Electric Slide –

   This is right up there with all of those dance songs you may want to avoid, like “The Macarena” and “Y.M.C.A.”

5. Love and Marriage by Frank Sinatra –

   In addition to this being one of those overplayed songs at weddings, it’s also way too reminiscent of Al and Peggy Bundy!

6. Brick House by The Commodores –

   Just no, people. Just no.

7. My Heart Will Go On by Celine Dion –

   You might know it as the romantic theme of the Titanic movie, but this song is about love that just doesn’t end well and it has no place at your wedding celebration!

8. White Wedding by Billy Idol –

   While many people think it’s hilarious and clever to play this at a wedding, it’s actually not a positive wedding song at all, and is better left on the MP3 player.

9. Wonderful Tonight by Eric Clapton –

   This is one of those songs that is beautiful to hear once and then every other time, it feels like your ears are bleeding.

10. Love Shack by the B52’s –

    Another song that has just been played way too much!

If having fresh, fun music is important to you, start thinking about the songs you just hear too often at weddings and other celebrations and make a list for your DJ to avoid!

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Uncomfortable Wedding Songs

No girl wants to be uncomfortable at her own wedding and reception, but when you’re on the dance floor and Celine Dion’s My Heart Will Go On starts to play, you’ll probably feel a little uncomfortable considering she’s singing to a deceased lover. Include songs that you don’t particularly like as well as those that involve scenarios you don’t really want to think about on your wedding day. Some of the most common uncomfortable songs included on the no-play list are Jesse’s Girl by Rick Springfield, I Will Survive by Gloria Gaynor, and Tears in Heaven by Eric Clapton.

Songs that are Uncomfortable for the Wedding Party

While you can’t choose music that will suit each and every wedding guest, you can ask each person that will be in the wedding to write down 1-2 songs for the no-play list. This will help you ensure that you don’t play any songs that are uncomfortable for the wedding party, including songs they feel belong to them and ex boyfriends or girlfriends, or songs that bring up particularly unpleasant memories.

Inappropriate Songs

Include songs that are popular but just plain inappropriate for you to play at the same wedding where your 70 year old grandmother will be! This might include popular hip hop or rap songs, or some of the old school songs that are popular at so many other weddings. Some of the inappropriate songs that are most commonly added to the do not play list include anything by the Beastie Boys, Madonna, Queen and Rod Stewart. Other songs include Whoomp! There It Is by Tag Team, I’d Do Anything for Love by Meatloaf and Tainted Love by Soft Cell.

By paying special attention to the songs you don’t want played at your wedding, you can warn your DJ in advance and ensure that no unpleasant songs are played as you and your guests celebrate.

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